Jeff Mills Coastal Vacations Club Blog

Houses, with their high cost and importance in today’s society, have come to represent more than just a place to live. Our house is an extension of who we are and how we are perceived by the rest of the world. The state of the yard, the cleanliness of the home, and the neighborhood that we live in says a lot about who we are. Home exchanges are also a way of learning more about who we are as people. By staying under someone else’s roof as though it were your own, it will give you a new perspective not just on yourself, but on how we view others based on their living space.

Owning a house gives people roots and creates communities where certain ideas and concepts of life get formed. Therefore, people are defined by where they live. When people exchange homes, they get a chance to see how life is led by different people by living where they live. It is not the same when you go to a new place and stay in a hotel; there, you are always separate and have a clear status of being temporary. When you stay in someone else’s home, you get a real sense of how people live in that particular area, whether it is another country or a different part of the state where you reside.

People who are willing to engage in home swaps as part of their vacation are taking a big risk. Sharing houses opens people up to a lot of judgment on how they live and what type of people they are. Whether this kind of judgment and analysis is right is irrelevant; even subconsciously people will make assumptions about your character based on where you live and how you live. You need to be quite secure and comfortable with who you are as a person to let someone else into your home, especially if it is for a period of weeks rather than hours. And remember, you won’t be there to guide your visitors through, shaping their perceptions with what you choose to reveal.

In terms of things we own, houses could be considered the windows to our souls. If our homes are messy it says one thing about us; if they are meticulously designed, then it says another. Even the food we keep in the pantry says something about who we are. This is the beauty of the home exchange holiday: it opens up our eyes in terms of seeing how others live, but it also forces us to consider how we live as well.

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